FAQs 

-HOW LONG WILL THE MATERIAL BE AVAILABLE?

-The class runs for 3 weeks, and support will be available through the moderators for another week after that. The course group will then be archived, which means that it is closed for new comments, but you can read and have access to all of the material within. I hesitate to say ‘lifetime’ because that’s a very long time, but it will be available for you to refer back to for as long as Facebook is around.

-DO YOU OFFER REFUNDS?

No. The course is 21 days long which isn’t really long enough to have a trial or refund period. If you feel called to do the course, trust that there is something in there for you. If you feel like you ‘should’ do the course, then I can put you at ease by saying that it will be offered every year.

-I have a history of really unpleasant things, and this is a huge part of my boundaries story. I don’t want to feel re-traumatized, but still feel drawn to this.

Hi. You’re not alone— I (Rebecca), and many of the mods also have our own unpleasant life experiences that created our own boundary picture. In the Wonder-world, we are a no-digging culture. That means, we really do not subscribe to, or encourage any kind of ‘work’ that involves pushing ourselves, or pushing each other, to look at, deal with, or process things that are not immediately on the surface. That is, there will be absolutely no pressure to work with your most painful memories, in fact, we’d much, much rather you don’t, to keep this journey light and playful. You don’t need to go back there to have deep and lasting changes happen, in fact, the most incredible transformations happen once we allow the process to be light and fun.

-Is there going to be a lot of emotional processing? I don’t want anything too heavy.

I mentioned in the above answer that we are a no-digging culture, and I mean it. This process is going to involve looking at the mechanisms of your current boundary picture, and it will involve a measure of self-honesty that might be a little challenging, but in terms of what you have to deal with emotionally, we are very much a ‘keep it as light as feels good’ space: it isn’t ‘better’ to have a deeply emotionally trying experience, in fact, that can be debilitating. It isn’t helpful to ‘work’ at it harder, or self-flagellate. So, the information itself can be intense, and the feeling of so much shifting can be intense, but as far as the actual emotional experience of processing goes, expect constant reminders from me and the rest of the guides, that you do not need to push, dig, or make this difficult.

-WILL I GET ANY ONE-ON-ONE TIME WITH REBECCA? 

No. I (Rebecca) have written the material, and will be doing live Q&A videos to answer any of your questions that come up. You will also be receiving support within the Facebook group from some of The Wonder Sessions students, who are incredible, wise, and understand the material very well, while adding their own perspective and flavour to the course.

-WHY IS IT ON FACEBOOK, I HATE FACEBOOK! 

To be honest, none of us (Rebecca and the moderators) are huge fans of social media either, however, we all employ different methods to make it work for us: Rebecca has a newsfeed blocker, and many students have ghost accounts just for Wonder work. You can do something similar: you can open an account just for the month, or save the page for the course material so that you can go straight there without getting sucked into the often unsettling chaos. 

We use facebook because it’s free, it’s easily accessible, and it’s well organised: you don’t need to sign up on a new website, or figure out how to use it when you’ll only need it for a month. If you absolutely hate facebook and will never ever open even a ghost account to do a course, then this simply isn’t the course for you. If you still really want it, then see if you can find a way to work around your (entirely justified) objections.

-I FEEL REALLY CALLED TO THIS BUT I’M NOT SURE.

Take a walk around the block, and make sure it’s truly calling to you. Sometimes, when you don’t know why, its that there’s something in there for you to learn as a part of your life path. But sometimes its just really good marketing (*preens*). A walk will help you sort out which it is. I hope its the former, but understand if it’s the latter! 

-I WANT THIS BUT I’M ALSO AFRAID THAT THIS KIND OF THING COULD NEVER BE FOR ME. 

Nobody else can tell you that you’re worthy of this kind of work. However, if you’re waiting for a sign, I’ll say this:

If you have desire, even (or maybe especially) if it comes with little flickers of fear and anticipation, then that is a sign.